
Let’s be honest – you probably don’t have a will. Your last doctor’s check-up was… when exactly? And that financial plan you meant to create? Still on the to-do list. We get it. Life moves fast, and between juggling kids, careers, and maybe even aging parents, planning for the "what-ifs" feels impossible. But here’s the thing: ignoring these important conversations doesn’t make them go away. It just means you’re navigating life without a roadmap. And nowhere is this more true than in your marriage. Enter the Post-Nuptial Agreement A post-nuptial agreement (or “post-nup”) is simply a legal document created after you’re married that outlines how assets, debts, and financial responsibilities would be handled if your marriage ends – whether through divorce or separation. Think of it as a financial blueprint for your marriage, created by you and your spouse, not by the state. The truth? None of those definitions capture what a prenup really means.
You’ve probably heard the word “prenup” tossed around at dinner parties, in celebrity news, or maybe whispered with unease in your own engagement conversations. Too often, it’s surrounded by myths it means distrust, it means expecting divorce, it means protecting the rich spouse and leaving the other vulnerable. The truth? None of those definitions capture what a prenup really means.
Getting engaged in New York City is thrilling, the lights, the celebrations, the energy. But once the excitement quiets down, reality sets in. Marriage isn’t just about love. It’s about combining lives, assets, and responsibilities. And here’s the hard truth: most couples never talk about what happens if things don’t go as planned. Not because they don’t care, but because they don’t know how. That silence is expensive. It can cost you your business, your home, your savings, or your peace of mind.
You’re ambitious. You’ve worked hard to build your career, and your future earnings are likely to outpace your current income. But here’s the thought that keeps you awake: If my marriage ends, can my spouse claim a share of everything I haven’t even earned yet? It’s a valid concern, especially in New York City where financial stakes are high and courts have broad discretion in divorce. At ASJ Law Office, this question comes up in almost every prenup consultation with executives, professionals, and entrepreneurs. The short answer is: Yes, a prenup can protect your future earnings, if it’s drafted correctly.